The Loneliness of the Christian

Many who have grown discontent with the arm of the flesh operating throughout the church- those who have moved out towards ‘Him who suffered outside the camp’ can feel great discouragement and loneliness at times. Although this discouragement and loneliness is usually from God and can often produce maturity in Christ, sometimes it is good to be encouraged that we are not alone. I have found that there are many others world-wide who are walking a similar lonely path. I’m sure that this short, potent word from Tozer will resonate with a number of readers, bringing encouragement to their souls. Some will say “it’s good to know there are others who ache for His Kingdom”.
Bretto
by A.W. Tozer
The loneliness of the Christian results from his walk with God in an ungodly world, a walk that must often take him away from the fellowship of good Christians as well as from that of the unregenerate world. His God-given instincts cry out for companionship with others of his kind, others who can understand his longings, his aspirations, his absorption in the love of Christ; and because within his circle of friends there are so few who share his inner experiences he is forced to walk alone. The unsatisfied longings of the prophets for human understanding caused them to cry out in their complaint, and even our Lord Himself suffered in the same way.
The man [or woman] who has passed on into the divine Presence in actual inner experience will not find many who understand him. He finds few who care to talk about that which is the supreme object of his interest, so he is often silent and preoccupied in the midst of noisy religious shoptalk. For this he earns the reputation of being dull and over-serious, so he is avoided and the gulf between him and society widens. He searches for friends upon whose garments he can detect the smell of myrrh and aloes and cassia out of the ivory palaces, and finding few or none he, like Mary of old, keeps these things in his heart.
It is this very loneliness that throws him back upon God. His inability to find human companionship drives him to seek in God what he can find nowhere else.
"And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death." -Revelation 12:11


March 18th, 2008 at 12:51 am
Thanks Bretto, I really needed to hear this word of encouragement. Boy has it been lonely for a few years now. My only link to brethren of like faith is the internet at this time and season. God Bless you! Terrie
March 18th, 2008 at 2:01 am
It does make a person feel a little less crazy to know there are others out there who have been pulled aside who don’t have other people who share the same inner workings of God. Having a personality type that enjoys peace and solitude definitely helps : ) My only link also to like thinkers is through different internet sites along with books.
My husband is a Christian, but not on the same page as me as far as how he is growing. I hope one day at least he and I can share more together in Christ, but would not trade that hope for knowing Him and walking alone. Kate
March 18th, 2008 at 5:26 pm
This article is me all over, thanks to God and to you Bretto for posting this, something i have needed to hear for the past 2 years at least. i cannot explain the anguish i have felt but being reminded that God IS in fact listening i can move forward and accept that my loneliness is not such a bad thing after all.
April 9th, 2008 at 6:53 pm
Let me be the first to admit that i have spent far more time trying to ‘win friends and influence people’ than i have being lonely. Its amazing how you convince yourself to keep those bridges open for traffic, even though you gladly recieved the box of matches from the Holy Ghost.